Delusional Pregnant Woman Expects Brother To Cancel And Post-Pone Wedding For Her

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Feb 2, 2022 3:00 PM EST

Being pregnant, especially if it's your first time, is hella exciting. There are so many fun decisions to make, and you get to experience the miraculous changes in your bodies. There is not one moment while being pregnant that you forget about your womanhood, that is for sure. It's like an energy that never escapes you, and it can feel pretty damn empowering from time to time.

But of course, we are not always in such cheery moods during our pregnancies. Some days are definitely more painful and exhausting than others. And there are even days where dare we say it, we wonder if we should've just opted for adoption. There's overpopulation anyway, right? Did this just get too dark? Disregard that last part.

This is all to say that being pregnant is both exciting and extremely difficult sometimes. However, regardless of your own personal experience, you cannot expect other people to shift their entire lives just because of your current situation. It's not amazing to hear, but it's true.

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    Font - Posted by u/Recent-Employment636 13 hours ago 3 3 3 3 + AITA for not cancelling my wedding because my SIL's due date is close to our wedding date?
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    Human body - My SIL is 2 months pregnant and she's due in August 6.
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    Font - Mine and my fiancé's wedding date is July 30th. We've saved the date and booked every venue about it since May. Booking a wedding these days can be really hard since everyone is rescheduling after two years of constant postponements.
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    Font - My SIL announced that she's two months pregnant last week. She also said her due date. We congratulated her and we were really excited.
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    Font - After few days, yesterday we met with her again and she said she wanted to sit me and my husband down and discuss the cancellation or postponement of our wedding because of her due date. We were shocked and surprised since we never discussed or even implied the wedding would be postponed.
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    Font - We kindly said to her that we won't cancel the wedding and we won't be mad if she won't be able to make it because her due date will be close. She said she won't accept not attending her brother's wedding so we have to make it work and look for another date.
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    Font - We explained we can't do it right now since every other date will be booked and if we cancel or postpone then next wedding date available is after February 2023.
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    Font - She said fine so be it we should book it for then. My fiancé and I were clear that we cannot and will not postpone. We have already prepaid some aspects of our vendors and we won't get all of our money back if we cancel. Also I'm gonna be honest. We don't want to cancel or postpone either.
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    Font - The wedding has been booked since spring 2021 we've almost finished all preparations for it so we will have the last few months before the wedding more relaxing and chill.
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    Mammal - Also my SIL doesn't have an active role in the wedding. She's the groom's sister but she has no duties she'll have to carry out.
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    Font - She can attend and sit in a chair to feel more comfortable and leave whenever she gets tired. She can also choose not to attend all together if she doesn't feel comfortable. Even if she had duties I'd find it perfectly reasonable for her to back out.
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    Font - My in laws have all gotten involved now and they're trying to pressure us to postpone the wedding because if we don't my SIL will probably not attend and she thinks it's unfair to not be present in her brother's wedding.
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    Font - My fiancé and I have not changed our minds but my SIL claims we are very selfish for not thinking about her feelings too and changing the date. AITA for not postponing/cancelling the wedding?
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    Font - OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I may be TA because I refuse to compromise about the wedding postponement to make my SIL happy so she can experience our wedding too.
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    Font - bexterlubz · 13 hr. ago Partassipant [1] Ha I'd have said well why didn't you consider our wedding date when you conceived the baby? Ha Are they or any of the family who's pressuring you going to pay the cancellation fees etc to move a wedding to another day? I doubt it.
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    Font - keiko1984 · 13 hr. ago NTA But holy heck why is everyone enabling SIL That seems like a issue all on its own. It sucks she won't be able to attend but these things happen & she'll just have to accept it.
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    Font - sordonez96 · 13 hr. ago Partassipant [2] NTA, she even knew when your wedding was before getting pregnant. Enjoy your wedding
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